Rules & Regulations

* No cameras or recording devices of any kind are permitted . No cell phones with cameras of any kind are permitted.

* Visibly intoxicated guests may be stopped at the door and refused entry. Management and Bar Staff reserve the right to cut off patrons due to excessive consumption of members own alcohol .

* The Golden Rule: "NO means NO" If you are in a situation that makes you uncomfortable, just say "No." Do not jeopardize your happiness and satisfaction with this lifestyle, or that of your partner, by doing something against your will just because you are afraid to say no. The friendliest way is to say, "oh no thank you, but thanks for asking." Be honest initially, and you will avoid any misunderstandings. Don't forget that peoples attitudes change and who knows? Maybe sometime in the future you may meet again with a different opinion.

* All guests must respect the personal privacy of others. No acts of violence or rude conduct to guests or staff will be allowed. Our staff members are always willing to try to correct any unpleasent situation. Treat one another with respect. After all, this is a party! Besides, you don't want to be rude or judgmental, because you wouldn't want it to happen to you. If a person talks to you and you are not interested, that doesn't mean you can't be nice to them. They are a person just like you! Just politely let them know, that you are not interested.

* If you are rejected (and it happens to everyone, including women), Do NOT take personal offense. Rejection is a very personal thing, and it's almost as hard to reject as it is to be rejected. Honesty with each other is crucial. Who knows? You could end up with a great friendship if you handle the situation right.

* Deal with jealousy head on! It is a normal reaction. Remember that this is strictly a physical & recreational pleasure, not an emotional one. Discover what triggers jealousy in your relationship and work it out together. It may mean modifying your activities, but your relationship together is not worth jeopardizing over swinging.

* Always let your steady partner know she/he is number one. Arrive together, take time to caress them, touch base often, it makes one feel secure. And always leave together.

* Use your common sense and good judgment. Be kind, thoughtful, and sensitive. Couples & singles are people and have feelings too!!!

* Honor any and all prior understandings & rules you have made between each other , and be sure to COMMUNICATE with each other openly and honestly so there are no misunderstandings about your rules.

* Respect the guidelines you set as a couple and communicate them to prospective partners. Open, honest communication is imperative to forming relationships! And please don't forget to respect the guidelines of others.